hey s13!
it's been a long while since i last seen you guys, but i guess you all should be doing fine. it's kind of obvious that the blog is stagnant, and unless someone starts blogging, we'll soon forget the existance of this blog. remember the purpose of this blog, to keep everyone in contact after we part? it was a succes initially, everyone was excited to blog about their school, how much they miss the class and stuff. it was expected, after all, it was a class that made up 3 months of your jc life. and to move on from a class that you just began to love to an entirely unfamiliar environment is a big change, not something one can adapt to in a short period of time. memories of 1st 3 months will be firmly etched in the back of your head.

yet as we start to settle down in our new schools, we began to make new friends and fit into our new class. yes, we may not like the school or the environment, but it is inevitable that we slowly form friendship with people there. the feeling of loneliness and emptiness when we 1st step into the new school compound is gone, and slowly but surely, we tend to neglect our 1st 3 months friends. no more are they 1st piority when it comes to giving them a sms or call, it's just like the switch from primary to secondary, where primary school friends are forgo for new ones to come. compare the no of blogs published a few days after our posting and the current situation now, it's pathetic.

however, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
people meet to part. just like we live to die.
it so happen that we parted earlier than the rest. what remains are the memories we created for ourselves. a change is good, people move on, and it so happen that i, or rather most of us, move from greener pastures to swamps. it aint bad at all, we allow other school cultures to be imbued into us, we allow more people to come into our lives. as we progress forward, we tend to get caught up with our ccas and studies that we forget the people that came across our lives, our main focus would be on the present, the people we meet today, how we can improve our relationship with them. it just takes a little effort to look back at our past, and we will truely be amazed by the no of friendships forged.but were gone with the wind. that's normal, yet the interesting thing is how our brain is able to store the looks, the name of the person, what we had done with them for so long. one can only wonder how many brain cells it takes to remember every single friends we had in our lifetime. that is the power of friendship. so much so that we can break of all contact with a friend yet in 10 years time still remember every single crap that we had done. it's these memories keeping us together that makes parting much easier to bear.

so i won't be surprised if the blog is dead in a few months time. to hell with it. i had all the fun and laughter, what's left now are memories that i will hold close to my heart.

finally, i got no idea what i'm typing. if you had read it. you might have just read a load of crap and wasted your time. congrats.

-binghong-

05s13 at 2:20 AM :: link